tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5227945636407573872.post7075046303256668613..comments2024-02-11T23:03:48.418-08:00Comments on torthúil: I can see your uterus in my crystal balltorthúilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07738803052167620020noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5227945636407573872.post-31759798171550393092016-04-25T15:37:13.259-07:002016-04-25T15:37:13.259-07:00I agree! No rumours unless there is a real pregnan...I agree! No rumours unless there is a real pregnancy! although to be honest I don't think I'd even like them in that case.torthúilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07738803052167620020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5227945636407573872.post-11670723946973907452016-04-25T02:54:30.930-07:002016-04-25T02:54:30.930-07:00Argh. That is so strange. She should just have sai...Argh. That is so strange. She should just have said "I brought you flowers" and left it at that. <br />Sorry about the crappy day. Been there. Hoping it gets better, and that there are no more strange and unsettling pregnancy rumors.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5227945636407573872.post-71394881586999894702016-04-19T20:00:12.549-07:002016-04-19T20:00:12.549-07:00Thanks! Yes, I allowed myself to be hopeful: so ma...Thanks! Yes, I allowed myself to be hopeful: so many stars seemed to be aligned, you know?! But I know that really has little influence over events in reality and things don't hsporn at convenient times ir because we really want them too. Glad I have this place to vent at least. Sending good wishes back to you!torthúilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07738803052167620020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5227945636407573872.post-82920755393205316392016-04-18T13:54:11.547-07:002016-04-18T13:54:11.547-07:00What the...
I cannot even fathom what would posse...What the...<br /><br />I cannot even fathom what would possess your co-worker to do something like that without you hinting about being pregnant. Unbelievable. Very sweet of her to bring you flowers, but SERIOUSLY. <br /><br />As for the period, I'm sorry. I understand. I'm hoping we both get good luck in the coming months.A Few Good Eggshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13654170259337486983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5227945636407573872.post-74050655584681651222016-04-08T15:01:08.772-07:002016-04-08T15:01:08.772-07:00Thanks! I don't have to deal with too many awk...Thanks! I don't have to deal with too many awkward conversations, but this caught me off guard and was really unfortunate timing. Ooh, Banff trip sounds exciting. Drop me a line if you might have time to meet up.torthúilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07738803052167620020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5227945636407573872.post-58391935501919056942016-04-08T13:17:59.745-07:002016-04-08T13:17:59.745-07:00Ughhhhh. That is so awkward and not a good day. I ...Ughhhhh. That is so awkward and not a good day. I also struggle with the questioning of if/when we are going to have another. I usually just come right out and say it's not that easy, we did fertility treatments to have Z. Usually it's a quick and short convo. I'm actually surprised by the ease. Unless they then ask, why don't you just adopt. Bang head into wall. Anyway, your vacation sounded lovely! I'm behind on commenting, but I enjoying reading. We are driving up to Banff in September and I'm super excited. I've only been to Victoria and Vancouver area so it will be neat to explore further. Marcyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00622377397195134361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5227945636407573872.post-59507123608165235532016-04-07T13:54:48.084-07:002016-04-07T13:54:48.084-07:00I know, hey? Just leave the crystal ball at home! ...I know, hey? Just leave the crystal ball at home! At the same time, I know that most of the reason the comment upset me was that dammit, I want to see my uterus in a crystal ball, I want to know what I should do and if I can get pregnant gain....AND THERE IS NO BALL. Sigh.torthúilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07738803052167620020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5227945636407573872.post-85107153252230586432016-04-07T07:42:01.437-07:002016-04-07T07:42:01.437-07:00Well it was thoughtful of her to bring you pretty ...Well it was thoughtful of her to bring you pretty flowers, but she definitely didn't need to say anything about possibly being pregnant. I'm sorry this cycle wasn't the one, but I hope it happens for you soon!Gypsy Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13026496787029080243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5227945636407573872.post-64129952862990772772016-04-06T20:42:19.118-07:002016-04-06T20:42:19.118-07:00Thanks. It's a mystery if or why a cycle is &q...Thanks. It's a mystery if or why a cycle is "good," but there are some signs I sort of have faith in. I haven't had the stomach to chart or monitor extensively, though. I dunno what my colleague was thinking. I guess she thought I was giving clues, but what the hell? Hopefully it felt as awkward for her as it was for me and there's no repeats. torthúilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07738803052167620020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5227945636407573872.post-87496058783918948602016-04-06T18:51:57.035-07:002016-04-06T18:51:57.035-07:00Oh...wow. Tulips are lovely, but what a strange th...Oh...wow. Tulips are lovely, but what a strange thing to give a coworker spring flowers in anticipation of a pregnancy announcement with no clues given whatsoever... So strange! Schools are such interesting microcosms. I think the word "Invasive" is perfect. It implies that it's unpleasant and takes a lot, and I feel might make someone less likely to pry. Or, if they give you tulips because they suspect you're expecting, maybe no word is the best word. :) Those in-class observations are so stressful, even if it's lovely to hear that you're doing all the right things, it just feels like extra eyes everywhere and adds extra pressure to be "on," especially on a day when you're not. I'm sorry that it was a disappointing cycle, but glad that it seems that they are evening out and your fertile days are coming at convenient times. I hope for the best for you, and for a better day to come.Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868505568965284742noreply@blogger.com